You Are a Force to Be Reckoned With. Why Don’t You Believe It?

You are!

You Are a Force to Be Reckoned With.

Why then, don’t you believe it?

How many times have you looked in the mirror and said, “You are amazing, you are awesome, and I love you?” If you’re anything like how I used to be, you don’t, unless of course you’re getting ready to go out on the town. Or as my daughter loves to say, you’re pre-gaming.

Now think about how many times you look in the mirror and pick out every single little defect you see. You may even have one of those magnifying mirrors just so you can see your flaws a little closer so you can scrutinize yourself even more.


Why is it that you’re only a “gorgeous slice of heaven” when you’re about to go out on a date, on the town, or…(insert fun, exciting, and/or celebratory event here)? Why? Because you’re reflecting back what you think someone else is seeing. You’re putting on your Game Face and bringing your A-Game to the table…but for the other person, not for you.

What if you brought you’re A-Game to you? What if you thought of yourself as that “gorgeous slice of heaven” every day? Imagine how your world would change.

Changing the way you see yourself starts by changing the story of how you see yourself. And changing your story means that you have to dive deep. My graphic designer, Ashley, posted something this week on FB that was so apropos. The post was about how you have to dive into the waves when you’re in trouble (like a when you hit a riptide or are swimming with a super strong undercurrent) in order to come back up for air and not drown. Life is like that. You dive into the trouble. (hint: for best results you dive in at the exact moment when you want to run and hide.)


So here are some tips to learn to dive deep:

·       Uncover why you feel the way you do about yourself and your world

·       Become more in tune with your vibe and how it affects your future potential

·       Actually understand that you deserve to live a life that excites you

·       Adore your soul and yourself more than any…(insert material possession or person here) you ever coveted

When you change your story (by diving deep) you can wake up each morning content and happy with your direction and know, without any doubt, that you’re on the right path. Because once you clear up the inner game struggles keeping you in a place you don’t love, the peace you were fighting for shows up on its own.

You are a force to be reckoned with. Believe it!

Open up to receive the gifts the Universe has in store for you. That equestrian business you want to launch? Consider it done. The dating service you want to create that rivals anything or EHarmony could ever be? Yours. The functional design boutique agency you want to open? Yes! (And there are so, so, so many more examples)

Once you dive deep into what’s holding you back, you release it of its power over you and you become unstoppable. Really, you do!

You are a force to be reckoned with. Believe it!